June 2, E. Not gonna start the debate again but it always makes me smile. So many articles here talk about double standards. Here you have it. June 3, longtimerooshreader You are right, this is why we are all here. To figure out how to understand women, and how to get love. Because the mainstream adivce we got from family or female friends just made things worse heartbreak embaressment etc. I dont think anyone here hates women except maybe mras and mgtow.
Understanding Code Red and Amber behaviour in Relationships
Do not trip or we are all doomed. Six more or six less seeing it, who cares? Who needs a glass when you have class? A full-frontal display of wrinkled eyes, ankle tattoos and boob jobs that are the only way their saggy tits stay parallel to the ground. Droves of lower 6s and 7s bounce around, tarted up as if they were about to be auctioned to some fat-fetish brothel in downtown Istanbul. This is what happens when you tell women that they can drink freely, dress the way they want and still be princesses.
A Lovefraud reader who posts as “Mani” asked a question that I’m sure is of interest to many others, so I’ll address it in a blog post.
September 6, at 3: My mother was not as bad as yours but she certainly did her share of damage. I have just turned 41, in July. I wished I was dead to be honest. The last male I was with cruelly discarded me. He was a narcissistic person like my mother. None of my relationships with men worked out because all of them were with cruel narcissistic men. Because my own mother was the model I knew and unconsciously, I have been drawn to men who are cruel in the same ways she was.
They have set me up on guilt trips as she used to. They have threatened abandonment and carried that out as she did. They have made me afraid of being alone exactly as she did during my formative years. They threatened to take away what meant the most to me if I did not do as they said, exactly as she used to to get her own way from me.
She would spend hours ranting to my father about my mistakes.
Why Guys Disappear and How to Deal
But I was really just getting started. We dated for 11 months, the last 10 months of which were pretty much hell. Paranoia and Delusions of Grandeur:
The Grand National horse race took place last weekend in England and apart from what I heard about it, being in the horse racing community myself, I paid little attention to the event.
The Rules Revisited I’ve dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female’s ignorance of the male mindset. At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
Sunday, December 23, Men That Like You Will Explain Themselves There are any number of signs that indicate a man’s disinterest in you, or give away his attempts to sleep with other women. Maybe he goes out to a bar without telling you about it, or stops contacting you for a while. While in most instances these kinds of behavior reveal his true intentions which have little or nothing to do with dating you , it is also true that in some instances there will be a perfectly reasonable explanation for what happened.
Maybe he went to the bar without telling you because it was a last-minute thing with his coworkers and his phone had just died. Or maybe he hasn’t contacted you for a couple days because his family just arrived in town and they’ve been together non-stop. The difference between a guy that has a genuine interest in you and one who doesn’t, is that the interested guy will give you a specific explanation about why he behaved the way he did, while the disinterested guy will give you a vague explanation – or no explanation.
Take the first example – your guy goes to a bar with his coworkers without telling you about it. On the one hand he might be out trying to pick up some new women, but on the other hand his phone might have legitimately died so he may have had no way to contact you. Consider the range of explanations he could give you:
Why Do People Abuse?
Empty Nest and Divorce–the Midlife Double Whammy Has your loving and affectionate child suddenly become unrecognizable to you? Does your child make you feel like you are the worst parent in the world? If so, your former spouse may be turning your child against you. Known as parental alienation or parental alienation syndrome, simply put it means your ex is manipulating and pressuring your kid to reject you.
The show follows the journey of a time traveler, Cole, from the post-apocalyptic future. Using a dangerous and untested method of time travel, Cole arrives in the present day on a mission to locate and eradicate the source of a deadly plague that will eventually decimate % of the human race.
What Is A Player: Just the way a player likes it. What is a player, you ask? My apologies for being blunt, but it is what it is. Are you dating a player? So, what is a player? Below are the signs that signify you may be dating a player: A player knows that you give a woman the opportunity to hide her private stuff before you say hello to the Tidy Bowl Man.
And he only needs those few seconds to do so. A player is quick on his feet. Congratulations, you win — the boobie prize. I lost my phone.
6 Reasons Why You’re Not Happy
Friday, January 9, How to fight a sociopath — and win! A book like that would be an instant bestseller. If you figure there are 50 million sociopaths in the world and every one of them knows about people, that’s It seems like most empaths can’t tell how to spot a sociopath, so you go reading all these books and looking at all these websites purporting to tell you how.
A book like that would be an instant bestseller. If you figure there are 50 million sociopaths in the world and every one of them knows about people, that’s that’s a lot of people who would be buying the book. It seems like most empaths can’t tell how to spot a sociopath, so you go reading.
Is it a symptom of something else? Narcissistic people often have narcissistic parents, who offered them a build up but no real substance. The child was only useful to these parents when they were serving a purpose for them. Often, a condescending remark will help them to reestablish their superior image. This behavior can be traced back to the need desperate need narcissists feel to be above others. What are the different types of Narcissism? Grandiose narcissists display high levels of grandiosity, aggression and dominance.
They tend to be more confident and less sensitive. They are often elitists and have no problem telling everyone how great they are.
40 Images Of The Grand National’s “Ladies Day” That Show How Low Western Women Have Sunk
It happened to me yesterday. I was listlessly checking my email when I noticed a text ad that I must have seen more than 10, times. Yesterday I joined the masses. And let me tell you. I became sickly fascinated.
Becoming aware of the forms that abuse can take helps you to be better prepared to recognize such behavior as abusive. Once you are able to label abuse, you can begin to take steps necessary to stop it from happening or repeating.
Then, I had to take kid one to school and came home again, a little mellowed out. The Narc apologized hah and I got to doing some research. I found my answer from others who have lived with Narcs longer than even I have, children of narcissistic parents my heart goes out to you all! Turns out, I really am the perfect narcissistic supply. Once the Narc no longer can control my emotions, I can use them to cut him down.
How to Manipulate a Narcissist A Narcissist survives by eliciting a reaction from you, usually sadness or anger. Do not forget, these actions are not based on logical thought processes, or even conscious thought processes, but on deeply embedded personality traits. This is not intended to try and help you make him into the man you once thought he was. You cannot change another person based on your actions, no matter how many times they try and make YOU responsible for their behavior, you can only control your reactions to them.
Why Guys Disappear and How to Deal
He believes that the key to life is for men to honour their primal nature. Visit his new website at primalexistence. We are motivated to do things to be happy and we avoid things that may detract from it. In that way, happiness is beyond a state of feeling; it is a state of being.
Signs that your ex boyfriend is stalking you, plus what you can do about it. Don’t make the same mistake that thousands of women make each year.
You feel like you are going crazy. They turn everything around. They will make you feel like you are the one that is going crazy instead of them. You might become paranoid. You might worry about what you wear and what you say and freak out if someone changes your plans or something unexpected happens that you will have to explain later. If you are a peaceful person, you might find yourself constantly fighting.
You might explode when you get too frustrated. You feel like there is something seriously wrong with you. You feel like you are walking on eggshells.
Signs Your Ex Boyfriend is a Stalker
I’m S and I’m proud! A question from a reader: Do most sociopaths know they are sociopaths, do narcissists know they are narcissists? Under what circumstances would a sociopath reveal himself?
If you’re an extroverted introvert like me, you know how confusing this is for people. Everyone expects an introvert to be shy and reclusive. And we can be, but extroverted introverts also like to get out there and mix ‘n mingle. When we’re “on”, we are sociable, and friendly. When we’re.
Psychopaths are extremely dangerous because they lack a heart and conscience but they camouflage that fundamental lack so well. With their extraordinary glibness and charm, they come on strong to their potential victims, love bombing them, flattering them, mirroring their interests and personalities—essentially, seducing them—then use them for their selfish and malicious purposes. Experts estimate that between 1 and 4 percent of the population is psychopathic. Since psychopaths are very sociable and promiscuous, this means that millions of psychopaths in this country alone adversely affect hundreds of millions of lives.
As its title suggests, Red Flags of Love Fraud teaches victims and the general public how to recognize the red flags of the psychopathic bond—which are far from obvious in the beginning. Liane Leedom , and—last but not least—a lot of her own analyses of psychopathic behavior and insights about the mindset of victims. She also includes anecdotes by victims telling their life experiences which make her book that much more interesting and offer concrete examples that readers can relate to.
Insight is when a writer manages to probe deep within, to explain analytically what may be only a vague intuition in the minds of readers. Insight and introspection are especially important for victims of psychopaths. There were red flags in the relationship early on that we chose to minimize or ignore. This book urges us to explore the reasons why we did that. To offer an important example, one of the most common way psychopaths initially lure victims, Donna explains, is by a combination of 1 love bombing and flattery; 2 persistence, and 3 mirroring our identities and values, to reveal a false sense of compatibility.
Love bombing is a process commonly used by cults, such as the Moonies, in the initial phases of attracting new members. Donna not only explains each strategy used by the psychopath, but also insightfully analyzes the reasons behind victim response.
It is an opportunity for us to reflect on the language and ideas that represented each year. So, take a stroll down memory lane to remember all of our past Word of the Year selections. Change It wasn’t trendy , funny, nor was it coined on Twitter , but we thought change told a real story about how our users defined Unlike in , change was no longer a campaign slogan. But, the term still held a lot of weight.
Here’s an excerpt from our Word of the Year announcement in
I came across an interesting statistic recently; 25% of relationships that start as affairs succeed. “Succeed” is defined as the couple staying together, rather than by the quality of the relationship.
Kathryn Patricelli, MA Understanding Abuse People have difficulty understanding the motives of people who are involved in abuse. Why people choose to abuse other people is a common question. Why adult people who are being abused choose to stay in abusive relationships is another. Neither of these questions have easy answers and even the strongest attempt to educate yourself as to why people might make these seemingly irrational choices will not lead to complete understanding.
Abuse situations must be lived in and experienced before their internal logic makes any sense. However, we can try to do our best to understand.